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#1 Jan 24 2014 at 9:09 AM Rating: Good
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The case of the pregnant brain dead woman in Texas goes before a judge today.

At issue is whether or not the hospital can or must keep the woman alive in order to keep the baby alive. The whacko Texas Advanced Directive Act says that...
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...person may not withdraw or withhold life-sustaining treatment under this subchapter from a pregnant patient.
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The woman's family and particularly her husband (and the legal father of the unborn child) and his attorney argue that this 'act' doesn't apply as this woman is not a patient as she's dead.

The baby is supposedly "distinctly abnormal, with heart problems, deformed lower extremities and hydrocephalus".

It seems clear to me that this man/husband/father has the right to make the determination of the fate of his wife and unborn child within legal limits.

The legal limits are the problem.

Does the Texas law go to far to declare that every single unborn life should be preserved at any and all cost to the family, community and society at large?
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#2 Jan 24 2014 at 9:33 AM Rating: Excellent
Even if the fetus was perfectly well formed, this is a grotesque science experiment. The woman's corpse is deteriorating. She's a gestating zombie right now.

Brain dead is dead. Even the coroner has issued a death certificate.
#3 Jan 24 2014 at 9:34 AM Rating: Good
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Does the Texas law go to far to declare that every single unborn life should be preserved at any and all cost to the family, community and society at large?


That was pretty clear long before there was any case like this.
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#4 Jan 24 2014 at 9:42 AM Rating: Good
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This is like the ultimate governmental intrusion.



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#5 Jan 24 2014 at 9:47 AM Rating: Good
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Texas will likely lose in court for the law being overly broad. That said, I don't think this is an uncomplicated issue. 1 day pregnant and brain dead shouldn't involved the rights of the "child", but at some point we should lend agency to the fetus and apply human rights. I'm not certain that point should be identical to the point at which we allow women to decide to abort, in honestly I feel like it should probably be err on the side of restricting earlier in the pregnancy than informed consent abortion. I could see exceptions for explicit living wills applying. Again, not a simple issue, although likely a fairly rare one.
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#6 Jan 24 2014 at 10:07 AM Rating: Good
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Texas will likely lose in court for the law being overly broad. That said, I don't think this is an uncomplicated issue. 1 day pregnant and brain dead shouldn't involved the rights of the "child", but at some point we should lend agency to the fetus and apply human rights. I'm not certain that point should be identical to the point at which we allow women to decide to abort, in honestly I feel like it should probably be err on the side of restricting earlier in the pregnancy than informed consent abortion. I could see exceptions for explicit living wills applying. Again, not a simple issue, although likely a fairly rare one.

The woman was about 3 months pregnant when she went brain dead. She could legally abort at that point. The husband is left high and dry in respects to his rights concerning his not-yet-a-child child.

I wonder if at that time if a DNA test was done to determine that the dad was indeed the legal bio dad, if he could have ordered an abortion?

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#7 Jan 24 2014 at 10:11 AM Rating: Excellent
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Is there any indication that his paternity is in question? I don't think that matters, at all. The law very clearly states that life support may not be withdrawn from a pregnant patient, or in this case, ex-patient.

She's just pining for the fjords.
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#8 Jan 24 2014 at 10:12 AM Rating: Good
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The woman was about 3 months pregnant when she went brain dead. She could legally abort at that point. The husband is left high and dry in respects to his rights concerning his not-yet-a-child child.

Husbands have no rights in regards to unborn children in this or any other circumstance. Nor should they. If children were gestated in robots, neither parent should have the right to abort the process, the reason women have this right is because it is unavoidably a woman's health issue and the importance of control over their own bodies sometimes is more important than the right of an unborn child to be born.
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#9 Jan 24 2014 at 10:23 AM Rating: Excellent
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#10 Jan 24 2014 at 10:29 AM Rating: Good
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Husbands have no rights in regards to unborn children in this or any other circumstance.


I think this is perhaps the one circumstance in which a father does have 100% rights over the unborn child. 1. The mother is dead 2. They were legally married 3. He is trying to carry out her wishes as explicitly stated in a legal document.

It's only the hospital that went crazy with this law, which will hopefully be struck down as a result of this case.
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I think this is perhaps the one circumstance in which a father does have 100% rights over the unborn child. 1. The mother is dead 2. They were legally married 3. He is trying to carry out her wishes as explicitly stated in a legal document.


I could "try to carry out her wishes as explicitly stated in a legal document." with as much force legally. The document is the important part.
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#12 Jan 24 2014 at 10:36 AM Rating: Good
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The paternity is not in question.

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the reason women have this right is because it is unavoidably a woman's health issue and the importance of control over their own bodies sometimes is more important than the right of an unborn child to be born.
No, abortion is an issue of choice. That's pretty clear.




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#13 Jan 24 2014 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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Smasharoo wrote:
Husbands have no rights in regards to unborn children in this or any other circumstance.


I think this is perhaps the one circumstance in which a father does have 100% rights over the unborn child. 1. The mother is dead 2. They were legally married 3. He is trying to carry out her wishes as explicitly stated in a legal document.
It wasn't documented.

The husband claimed that the couple had discussed end-of-life issues and had verbally expressed their wishes to each other. They were both in the medical field, so I suppose it comes up. It wasn't written down though.
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No, abortion is an issue of choice. That's pretty clear.

Yeah, no. Not legally, not ethically. Only in slogans.
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She's just pining for the fjords.

Turns out she isn't dead, it was just a pun. No wait, a palindrome.
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#16 Jan 24 2014 at 11:01 AM Rating: Good
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Smasharoo wrote:
No, abortion is an issue of choice. That's pretty clear.

Yeah, no. Not legally, not ethically. Only in slogans.

No, yeah.

You know as well as I do that a woman can choose to get an abortion without any medical reason - without even the pretext of a medical reason.



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You know as well as I do that a woman can choose to get an abortion without any medical reason - without even the pretext of a medical reason.


Right and so can the father of the child. Oh wait, he can't because it's a woman's health issue. If it was a choice issue there would be no reason to exclude the choices of other interested parties beyond the mother. It isn't a choice issue, however, it's a "control over my own body" issue. Maybe those words make it easier for you to understand, but there is zero chance, zero, that if a child gestated outside of the body instead of within it that a woman would be the sole person deciding if that child came to term or not. It's painful clear in the law, the ethical consensus is as well. You could argue that's not how it "should" be, but that's an entirely separate conversation.

That said "pro control over ones own body" is a boring slogan and not at all pithy. Also I have no stake in this at all, if you want to wander the world thinking Roe V Wade affirmed the power of choice for women, have a good time. It won't change the law or matter much at all.

Edited, Jan 24th 2014 12:08pm by Smasharoo
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#18 Jan 24 2014 at 11:42 AM Rating: Good
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Smasharoo wrote:
Husbands have no rights in regards to unborn children in this or any other circumstance. Nor should they. If children were gestated in robots, neither parent should have the right to abort the process, the reason women have this right is because it is unavoidably a woman's health issue and the importance of control over their own bodies sometimes is more important than the right of an unborn child to be born.


I disagree.

A woman always has the right to control her body. Whether or not it's 3 weeks into a pregnancy or 8 months is largely irrelevant. If we're going to treat women as persons, they need to be given the agency to actually act as persons. Requiring women to remain pregnant, in any circumstance, fundamentally erases personhood by treating them as broodmothers. It's essentially a slavery situation on a micro scale - we accept a scenario in which women have rights, but we make those rights conditional to the service of another.

Plus, I don't agree with you re: abortion in tank scenarios. If a fetus is 4 months along and the parents decide they don't want to be parents, there's no reason they shouldn't be able to abort that pregnancy. It's not a person. It doesn't have rights to be born because it has the theoretically capability to actually be born.

Maybe there is a point where a fetus attains personhood, and it attains the right to life. And, sure, if that's the case then the parents couldn't abort it (since abortion wouldn't be an act of agency on part of the woman to control her own body).

But, personally, I don't think the actual state of personhood is developed until a fair bit after birth. I think we set birth as a convenient time for personhood to be considered, because actually marking the specific moment a baby becomes a person isn't realistic, and there are additional social reasons (like developing relationships) that make personhood-at-birth desirable as a policy.

Either way, in this situation, the question is relatively simple for me. If you believe that a person has the right to control the fate of their bodies after death (and trust that this woman's family isn't ************** then she should be taken off life support. If you don't believe that, then you already have your answer - the state/hospital can do what they want.

Or maybe you think that the person's wishes don't matter, but the family's do. Then you have the answer that she should be taken off.

It's not really a complicated situation with regards to what the right course of action is. Legally, it doesn't sound too complicated, either. If they wrote the law such that an individual needs to be a patient for it to apply, it doesn't. If they didn't write the law that way, it probably does.

Whether or not you agree with that depends on where you fall on the flowchart. /shrug
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#19 Jan 24 2014 at 12:02 PM Rating: Good
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I disagree.

A woman always has the right to control her body. Whether or not it's 3 weeks into a pregnancy or 8 months is largely irrelevant.


That's quaint, but the idea that aborting an 8 month pregnancy should be legal or is morally or ethically fine puts you on an extreme ethical fringe closer to "parents should be able to kill 9 year old children they think aren't working out" than it does to current norms.
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#20 Jan 24 2014 at 12:05 PM Rating: Excellent
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Oh, don't be silly. Parents shouldn't be allowed to kill any children older than five.

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"parents should be able to kill 9 year old children they think aren't working out"

Really, they're only cute when they're younger. I don't see any issue with permanently getting rid of your surly teens.
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"parents should be able to kill 9 year old children they think aren't working out"

Really, they're only cute when they're younger. I don't see any issue with permanently getting rid of your surly teens.
You're supposed to marry them off at that age; only you can't because of government interference. Whatever happened to liberty?
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Pretty Foucaldian situation. Or Agambian, rather. Is he a big enough deal to have his name be a word like that? Probably not, right?

Really ******* creepy, either way.
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#24 Jan 24 2014 at 2:57 PM Rating: Good
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Smasharoo wrote:

I disagree.

A woman always has the right to control her body. Whether or not it's 3 weeks into a pregnancy or 8 months is largely irrelevant.


That's quaint, but the idea that aborting an 8 month pregnancy should be legal or is morally or ethically fine puts you on an extreme ethical fringe closer to "parents should be able to kill 9 year old children they think aren't working out" than it does to current norms.


That's a pretty nice straw man you've got there, gbaji.

Abortion at any time, for any reason is a pretty cornerstone tenant of the feminist movement, even when you're subscribing to lighter versions of it, and I wouldn't consider that a fringe group by a long shot.

And an argument by norms isn't really going to work in this case. Most women who get abortions get them earlier in their pregnancies, (because they don't want to be pregnant). But that doesn't mean they WOULDN'T get them in their 8th month, if that's how the scenario played out.

And 1 month or 5, the fetus still has no right to the woman's body, no matter how you want to split it.

We don't hold that the right to life supersedes the right to control your own body in literally ANY other case than with pregnant women. You can present me with a dying person, who just needs a simple blood transfusion to live, and I'm under no legal obligation to donate blood (something with a VASTLY less-invasive cost than pregnancy). It doesn't matter if that person is an infant. It doesn't matter if that person is my own baby.

So why should we pretend like a fetus, in it's 8th month or no, has the right to a woman's body?

Particularly when the practice is going to be so rare that this is almost never an issue a woman faces in the first place. Nearly all late term abortions occur because of severe medical issues. Nearly all women who would want to not be pregnant anymore would get abortions LONG before that.

Furthermore, the idea a woman shouldn't be able to abort an 8-month-old is even stupider, since the abortion process itself IS DELIVERY at that point. There are only two ways to get a fetus that large out of woman's body. If the baby actually has the ability to sustain life (as in no deformation), then a hospital can fairly easily manage that.

And when we get into the less straw-man range of, say, 6 months it's seems increasingly obvious a woman should be able to abort, no? I mean, that's 3 months of her life she'd be treated as a baby farm under the law.
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That's a pretty nice straw man you've got there, gbaji.

Yes it was an elaborate construction where you posted
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A woman always has the right to control her body. Whether or not it's 3 weeks into a pregnancy or 8 months is largely irrelevant.


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That's quaint, but the idea that aborting an 8 month pregnancy should be legal or is morally or ethically fine puts you on an extreme ethical fringe closer to "parents should be able to kill 9 year old children they think aren't working out" than it does to current norms.


Sorry to take you so in context there and not create any sort of artificial false choice or exaggerate your arguments any.

Perhaps what you meant to post instead of "nice straw man" was "I fucked up when I posted "8 months" that was a mistake on my part."

If that isn't what you meant, I don't at all care what you think and can't be bothered with the rest of your thoughts on this topic. Someone else will care, I'm sure.
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This is going to be Castile v Mesoamerica all over again, isn't it?
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