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#702 Mar 29 2013 at 10:14 AM Rating: Excellent
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Spread over how many locations? You mentioned a "couple dozen" at your work place. Does each location need special accommodations despite the fact that there likely isn't anyone there who needs them?

It would be very hard to justify special accommodations for 0.2% of your work staff from any sort of commercial or economic standpoint. I'm not arguing whether it's "right" or "good". Just that this is why things like handicapped stalls get legislated -- people wouldn't usually do them left to their own devices.
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#703 Mar 29 2013 at 10:26 AM Rating: Excellent
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Spread over how many locations? You mentioned a "couple dozen" at your work place. Does each location need special accommodations despite the fact that there likely isn't anyone there who needs them?

It would be very hard to justify special accommodations for 0.2% of your work staff from any sort of commercial or economic standpoint. I'm not arguing whether it's "right" or "good". Just that this is why things like handicapped stalls get legislated -- people wouldn't usually do them left to their own devices.

About 12,000 at this location, we're over 14,000 if you include our satellite campuses now. It's a huge hospital by itself, not counting the other 2 hospitals up here on the hill with us.

And not necessarily from a strictly economic point of view, but like I said above if the 0.2% has a significant sympathetic backing it can make political sense for a company to find a solution. Maybe that solution is more unisex bathrooms or something in this case. More of a marketing and appealing to your customers kind of thing.
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#704 Mar 29 2013 at 10:52 AM Rating: Decent
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I'll also add that I'm willing to bet that a transgender individual who has not yet been able to begin or has not finished their physical transformation would avoid any and all situations where they would be forced to shower in a communal shower. I am not transgender, but I know that they are already self conscious and uncomfortable with their bodies, so I imagine they wouldn't want to enter into a situation where attention is called to it. Communal showers are easy to avoid. Public restrooms less so.
Well, most are and would avoid such situations, but not all.
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I said in comparison to a clothed body, scantly if preferred.
Okay
What value do you get out of drawing a nude body over a clothed body, or anything else of that matter, other than nudity?


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There is a big difference between me not wanting strangers to see me naked because I am self conscious and someone not wanting another individual to see them naked because of an irrational fear that they are being checked out.

Smiley: yippee Welcome to my point! A few years late, but better late than never I guess. The point being that you can't state that you (along with selected others, i.e. women) are the former and others (i.e. heterosexual men) are the latter.

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I'll also add that I'm willing to bet that a transgender individual who has not yet been able to begin or has not finished their physical transformation would avoid any and all situations where they would be forced to shower in a communal shower. I am not transgender, but I know that they are already self conscious and uncomfortable with their bodies, so I imagine they wouldn't want to enter into a situation where attention is called to it. Communal showers are easy to avoid. Public restrooms less so.


Another convenient assumption. Why should a man have to do anything? Why can't I change my gender to "woman" and just start using women showers without changing anything other than my gender?

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Not only are the two aren't comparable, but society (world wide) largely discriminates via sex in the concept of "Separate but Equal".

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Because it teaches you how humans of any shape or size work, how they move and how to draw them in a realistic way. That doesn't work when you have clothes obscuring things and nobody who is at all serious about his or her art will mind the nudity.


Ok, let's check off the things that an artist can draw/learn with a scantly dressed model.

1. it teaches you how humans of any shape or size work - check
2. how they move -check
3. how to draw them in a realistic way. -check
4. nobody who is at all serious about his or her art will mind the nudity. - errrr..... So, this comes down to nudity. You haven't provided any artistic gain or loss from drawing or not drawing a fully nude model.

I have no objection to live nude models, I'm just pointing out that there is no artistic value from drawing a *****.
#706 Mar 29 2013 at 11:35 AM Rating: Decent
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Another convenient assumption. Why should a man have to do anything? Why can't I change my gender to "woman" and just start using women showers without changing anything other than my gender?
Have to? She shouldn't. But this is an exceedingly rare situation. So rare in fact, that it's not worth discussing. You are only distracting from more relevant situations.
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But this is an exceedingly rare situation. So rare in fact, that it's not worth discussing.

Good to know we have an arbiter of what aspects are worth discussing. I was worried.
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Anyway, lets say there's 0.2% of the population we need to account for in some special way. For an employer like mine you have a couple of dozen employees at this location alone. You start to reach the point where it can make sense to address the issue in some way, especially if that 0.2% has a sympathetic audience.

Assuming 48 employees, that would mean you're accommodating 9.6% of one person at that location.

Are you sure you mean 0.2%?
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But this is an exceedingly rare situation. So rare in fact, that it's not worth discussing.

Good to know we have an arbiter of what aspects are worth discussing. I was worried.


Given a discussion on the point that rules either need to be upheld or removed, pointing out the fact that there is no way to uphold the rule without a specific standard is pretty relevant. In other words, there is no point in discriminating based on gender if anyone can change their gender at any time with no quantitative way of measurement. Therefore, discriminating via sex, with a quantitative biological definition, is a better solution. Either that or remove the discrimination all together. I apologize if you two fail to understand common sense.
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You would not believe the concessions I have to make sometimes just to appease my left foot.
There's a pedophile joke in there.
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Given a discussion on the point that rules either need to be upheld or removed, pointing out the fact that there is no way to uphold the rule without a specific standard is pretty relevant. In other words, there is no point in discriminating based on gender if anyone can change their gender at any time with no quantitative way of measurement. Therefore, discriminating via sex, with a quantitative biological definition, is a better solution. Either that or remove the discrimination all together. I apologize if you two fail to understand common sense.

First of all, when you're trying to sound smart you sound more like a squirrel ran across your keyboard.

Second of all, I was (in a fashion) agreeing with you. More to the point, I was pointing out your little friend handwaving away inconvenient aspects of the argument when those aspects where pretty much the catalyst of 90% of the 'debate' in this thread.
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First of all, when you're trying to sound smart you sound more like a squirrel ran across your keyboard.


I wasn't even trying in the least bit, but thank you for thinking so..

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Second of all, I was (in a fashion) agreeing with you. More to the point, I was pointing out your little friend handwaving away inconvenient aspects of the argument when those aspects where pretty much the catalyst of 90% of the 'debate' in this thread.


I knew your point, just figured that you got bored and wanted to argue... MY BAD! .... not that serious.. More on point, I now have a quote of you admitting to agreeing with me as you avoided it earlier on..
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pointing out the fact that there is no way to uphold the rule without a specific standard is pretty relevant.
But there is a standard. I'm sorry if it's not quite as black and white as you'd like, but that's how many things are, and somehow we still manage. Just because you can't look at somethign and instantly know all the relevant information doesn't make it pointless.

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I wasn't even trying in the least bit, but thank you for thinking so..

Ill-written and tedious is your normal state. Understood.
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First of all, when you're trying to sound smart you sound more like a squirrel ran across your keyboard.


It's kinda cute, cuter than I imagine Alma being at least.
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pointing out the fact that there is no way to uphold the rule without a specific standard is pretty relevant.
But there is a standard. I'm sorry if it's not quite as black and white as you'd like, but that's how many things are, and somehow we still manage. Just because you can't look at somethign and instantly know all the relevant information doesn't make it pointless.

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Of course there is a standard, based off of sex. It's you who is trying to pretend that the standard is based off of gender, which is not quantifiable.
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Of course there is a standard, based off of sex. It's you who is trying to pretend that the standard is based off of gender, which is not quantifiable.
But...it's not. Pretty much everyone uses bathrooms based on their gender, and i've still yet to see a bathroom labeled XX/XY, or penises/vaginas. You only see it that way because in your mind, sex and gender are always the same.
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Of course there is a standard, based off of sex. It's you who is trying to pretend that the standard is based off of gender, which is not quantifiable.
But...it's not. Pretty much everyone uses bathrooms based on their gender, and i've still yet to see a bathroom labeled XX/XY, or penises/vaginas. You only see it that way because in your mind, sex and gender are always the same.


We went over this already. Bathrooms are not based on gender, because it isn't quantifiable. Unless you know a way, hence the argument against such silliness. Everyone agrees that sex is more than a *****/******, so I don't know why you insist on saying that. I've also stated an eleventy-billion times that the terms are completely different and their differences are the exact reasons why basing rules on gender is contradicting.

What you have done is constantly interchanged the terms to your fancy. So, to prevent you from continuing to play both sides, give me a definition of sex.

How do you define sex?
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i've still yet to see a bathroom labeled XX/XY, or penises/vaginas.

I've seen them labeled Buoys and Gulls though and I was allowed in even though I'm not mentally nor spiritually a nautical safety & signaling device.

Don't even get me started on Colts & Fillies.
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Of course there is a standard, based off of sex. It's you who is trying to pretend that the standard is based off of gender, which is not quantifiable.
But...it's not.


It's not quantifiable? Or it's not not quantifiable? I'm so confuzzled? Smiley: confused

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No. pretty much everyone uses bathrooms based on their sex. The issue is that for 99.8% (or whatever) of the population, sex and gender happen to be the same.

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... and i've still yet to see a bathroom labeled XX/XY, or penises/vaginas.


Again though, for the 99.8% of the population for whom sex and gender are identical, they understand that the sign with the woman on it refers to people with vaginas, and the one with the man on it refers to people with penises.

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No. For the overwhelming majority of the population they are the same. It's not that we can't comprehend that for a small percentage they aren't, but that in cases where they are not the same, the sex should be used to determine who uses a restroom, and not the gender. I just can't make this more clear for you. This is not an argument from ignorance. I'm completely aware of the issues which arise when sex and gender are not the same. But what you seem unaware of or unwilling to acknowledge is that this condition does not just cause problems for the transgendered person but for everyone else as well. You seem to want to solve the issue by only looking at what would make things easier for you, while ignoring that your solution makes things harder for everyone else.


It makes a hell of a lot more sense to divide bathrooms up by sex, because as Alma correctly stated (yes, he did) sex is something we can actually quantify, while gender, when it differs from sex, cannot be quantified. Rules only exist to the point that they can be enforced. If you have no means to test that the rule has been broken, then you can't enforce it. Since there's no means for the owner of a restaurant to verify that the biological male using the restroom he set aside for his female customers to use is or isn't female gender, he can't enforce the rule that men use the mens restroom and women use the womens restroom. Assuming there is any value to dividing them up in the first place (which we kinda have to assume there is), your solution puts him in an impossible situation and effectively requires that he allow something his customers will not like (men using the women's restroom).


I'm fully aware that this sucks for the transgendered people in this scenario, but there are lots of things in this world that suck, and sometimes you just have to accept that and move on. At the end of the day, it's your case that is the outlier in terms of society, and you have to learn how to adjust to societal norms, not the other way around.
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Ok, let's check off the things that an artist can draw/learn with a scantly dressed model.

1. it teaches you how humans of any shape or size work - check
2. how they move -check
3. how to draw them in a realistic way. -check
4. nobody who is at all serious about his or her art will mind the nudity. - errrr..... So, this comes down to nudity. You haven't provided any artistic gain or loss from drawing or not drawing a fully nude model.

I have no objection to live nude models, I'm just pointing out that there is no artistic value from drawing a *****.


While I am in no way an artist, realizing that you should be able to appropriately model musculature, skin and motion seems pretty obvious.
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Ok, let's check off the things that an artist can draw/learn with a scantly dressed model.

1. it teaches you how humans of any shape or size work - check
2. how they move -check
3. how to draw them in a realistic way. -check
4. nobody who is at all serious about his or her art will mind the nudity. - errrr..... So, this comes down to nudity. You haven't provided any artistic gain or loss from drawing or not drawing a fully nude model.

I have no objection to live nude models, I'm just pointing out that there is no artistic value from drawing a *****.


While I am in no way an artist, realizing that you should be able to appropriately model musculature, skin and motion seems pretty obvious.


And you can't get that experience unless the model is totally nude? What is so special about nipples, penises and vaginas that you are unable to obtain specific artistic experience without them?
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And you can't get that experience unless the model is totally nude?

It helps if you remove their skin as well.
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We went over this already. Bathrooms are not based on gender, because it isn't quantifiable.
Uh, what? Why does it need to be quantifiable?
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Everyone agrees that sex is more than a *****/******, so I don't know why you insist on saying that.
Saying what? I gave an example of a label that would appropriately exclude some trans people from using the bathroom that matches their gender, but not necessarily their sex. If you thought i meant that that is the only thing that defined sex, then you've completely failed to understand anything i've said.

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How do you define sex?
Well, like you, i'm bad at defining words, so looking over some dictionaries, merriam-webster defines it as
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Which sounds about right to me, so let's go with that. Are you happy with that definition?

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It's not quantifiable? Or it's not not quantifiable? I'm so confuzzled?
It's not based on sex.

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No. pretty much everyone uses bathrooms based on their sex. The issue is that for 99.8% (or whatever) of the population, sex and gender happen to be the same.
I don't know, it sure seems to me like more people use the bathroom that matches their gender than use the one that matches their sex.

By the way, what about intersex people? Which bathroom should they use?

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You seem to want to solve the issue by only looking at what would make things easier for you, while ignoring that your solution makes things harder for everyone else.
It's funny to me that you keep repeating this, despite more and more people coming and saying they have no problem sharing a bathroom, or even locker room with trans people. In fact, i don't think anyone here has actually said otherwise.

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At the end of the day, it's your case that is the outlier in terms of society, and you have to learn how to adjust to societal norms,
Like blacks? Like gays?

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Rules only exist to the point that they can be enforced. If you have no means to test that the rule has been broken, then you can't enforce it.
Since when? How do you quantify hate crimes? How do you prove self defense? There's all kinds of rules/laws that can't really be quantified.

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And you can't get that experience unless the model is totally nude? What is so special about nipples, penises and vaginas that you are unable to obtain specific artistic experience without them?


What is so special about nipples, penises and vaginas that you'd specifically exclude them from your art, as opposed to say shoulders, kneecaps, and hands?
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