Did I do something wrong?Follow

My apologies in advance for this long rant...
Yesterday afternoon, I was trying to level my 49 whm up to 50. I seek a party for a while, and get an invite from a person who is forming a party. So I join, we get a total of 5 people together, but cannot find a red mage. Tired of waiting, we picked up another whm who was in bastok named kisathetiger. She got to jeuno, then we set out for Garlaige Citadel. We get there, and prepare to start fighting. Then, for no apparent reason, she ran out to the middle of the cave without sneak or invisible on, and got aggroed by two funnel bats. She died rather quickly, and we were like, um... (I guess she just forgot to put the buffs up, I've done it before as well. I dont know why she ran out to the middle though, but I wasnt mad or anything, just felt sorry for her.) So we raised her, and prepared to go to the camp, which was on the other side of the open area. This time we made sure that everyone had sneak/invis on. Then we head out. In a fit of bad luck, a magic jug that the bst next to us was fighting let off an AoE as kisa was running past(still weakened). She dropped instantly. Now, I would be angry at this, but it was nobody's fault. At this point, she goes to her homepoint in bastok and leaves the party without saying anything. Now to wrap it up: Everything up to this point has been unfortunate accidents. Even so, I understand her leaving, though she should have said something. BUT, I sent her a /tell saying how sorry I was that it had happened to her, trying to be nice, etc, and she tells me to shut up and blacklists me. Did I offend her or something by trying to be nice? Comments please.

Maybe just a bad night and frustrated and didn't want to talk about it. At any rate it's probably nothing that you personally did, but rather an unfortunate outlash because of frustration and disappointment. :)

I don't think you did anything wrong, it was mostly circumstancial.

From the above two posts, I think it's safe to say that it was uncharacteristic of this person to behave in this way, and that it may have been just a fit of frustration that caused it. I myself have felt that way because of bad ingame experiences, and sometimes do end up taking my anger out on my LS friends. (( Poor them... ^^; ))

I guess, sometimes, things just happen. I do hope that this gets resolved, but in the event that it doesn't.. just know that you tried your best. Good luck.


Edited, Mon Dec 6 13:36:45 2004 by Kysha

i might have stayed just to get my exp back heh, and ive come to realize that bst is actualy short for ******* ^^
(no offense^^)

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