Chances are the people you encountered wouldn't do that to anyone but you.
Looking through this forum one quickly gets the idea (wrongly or righty) that you've been scamming people, have terrible equipment, and are generally not the type of person you want to spend extended periods of time with.
Posting things like:
Nifrot wrote:
if i scammed u dont u think id hav sum decent gear atleast?
Whilst also looking for a static party, on the same forum, is not the greatest of plans.
Level up RDM or WHM, go solo yourself some money (and some exp too, if you like) and be a nice guy. Rumours of scamming should dissapear once you've helped some people with Genkais and AF. Help a few people with G1 and before too long chances are they'll be in your level range, and they'll probably be quite likely to invite you along to a party. They'll be even more likely to invite you if you have shiny gear.
As adorable as your fights with your brother and sister (the "expert hackers") are, I for one don't really want to hear about them. Your character has done nasty things to people; apologise to them (yes, I know it wasn't you that did it) and they'll feel a lot better. Something like "I'm very sorry for what my character has done to you, if there is any way for me to repay you, please tell me." will go a lot further than "OMG IT WASNT ME!! I wos hacked!!12! u r a LIER!" which is just going to make them more angry.
Sorry that half of this wasn't related to this topic, but you seem to have so many threads dedicated to you, I had to pick one to post in.