Here is the basics.. and as detailed as I can go without having fraps installed.
I was seeking in Jueno when Darklotus invited me. Accepting the invite a full party was formed and we headed out to Quicksand caves. Getting inside a Skillchain was setup using DarkKnigh and Thief with MB being Blizzard. First pull thief preforms the wrong WS... and comments were made by Darklotus and trainwreck. The thief said she understood and tried to adjust. Second pull thief does another mistake and comments are made by same two again.. around 3rd/4th pull fun begins.
Dark says outloud how the thief is not good and if we want a ranger instead. Then Dark begins to msg everyone in the party. I confirmed this by asking everyone but the thief and trainwreck. Pulling again Dark msgs me, "When the ranger gets here Warp II the thief". Shocked someone would ask me to even do something so.. well rude I ignored it. During the fight he msgs me more.. asking me to warp II and says getting the ranger will give us better and faster xp and I can MB (like thats going to win my favor). Ignoring him I continue to do my job.. focusing on killing monsters and waiting when I needed to MB. As the minutes pass then Dark keeps msging me to DII the thief.
Talking to the other two people I find out he did ask the others if they wanted to replace the thief. They did and I was fine with that. Then I asked did they also agree to have the thief DII without their consent... that they did not agree to. Some of the others admitted the thief was 'adjusting' and getting better quickly.
Continuing to focus on my job.. trainwreck starts to get in on the fun of nagging me. Asking me to DII the thief asap I msg him back, "So you want me to DII a player without their consent?". He didnt respond... and then darklotus msged me again for DII on thief. I used my 2hr... and told them "Get someone else to do your dirty work" and I warped home.
Sadly the story only gets.. worse at least from how rude Darklotus and trainwreck are.
Talking to them from my MH... I find the ranger they invited and warned them of what type of players they are.. and if you dont meet their standards they will abandon you. She was appreciating the news and that ended that talk.
Then the other player.. a taru redmage sends a msg laughing.. saying he was just kicked from the party..and that darklotus said the reason was : {Im sleepy}. At the same time the other person in the party (not the thief) messages me saying that Dark claimed that the thief and redmage were gilsellers and thats why he kicked them... Now the redmage spoke good english and was not wearing super gear during the party... which makes no sense.. the Darkknight said he left.. agreeing that Dark and train were not the best.. of players.
Talking to one of them they told me the LS's both Darklotus and Trainwreck belonged to...
Divine Knights and Darknights.
Is this normal of the NA players lately.. or did I just get the wrong party