This goes against what seems to be standard practices, so my karma may well be about to take a hit. So be it.
I, from this day forward, will no longer use the term "stupid n00b" to describe anyone.
I've used it in the past (ashamed to admit it, but true unfortunately). I've seen it used all over this forum and many others. It is used as a derogatory term to describe someone you percieve has less knowledge or experience than you in the game. And I am tired of it.
When I first learned the terminology it was me on the outside looking in, asking questions like "How do I use the AH" or "Where are the Chocobo Stables in Bastok". Most of the time people were nice and offered help. But invariably there was somebody who would shout or send back a /tell along the lines of "STFU yu stupid n00b".
It continued in my first parties. Someone would make a mistake, either in the PT or outside the PT, and the term would be used. Youd hear a statement like "OMG I hate dunes pts because of all the stupid n00bs". Or "level your subjob you stupid n00b". Or "omfg you stupid n00b why are you wearing [insert gear here]". Later it continued when I joined my first LSs. Often, "stupid n00b" would be stated in conversations criticizing someone for something.
It's still happening now, just at another level. Someone who doesn't have the best gear is a "stupid n00b". Someone who is lower Rank, lower level, or lower playtime is a "stupid n00b". People do not want to EXP in certain areas because of all the "stupid n00bs". On and on and on. And as I read about the endgame, it still goes on. Lvl 75s calling lvl 70s "stupid n00bs". It doesn't ever seem to end.
I guess my main problem is this term tends to dismiss people completely based on whatever issue or perception caused the person to be labeled as a “stupid n00b”. The fact is, they may neither be stupid nor new. They may know a heck of a lot of things you don't. Maybe in this instance they just made a mistake. Maybe they just don’t have the gil to have the gear you think they should have by when you think they should have it. Or maybe they really HAVEN’T done something before, or don’t know EVERYTHING. So what? That doesn’t make them “stupid”. ‘Cause guess what? There was a time you didn’t know it either.
Unless you have every job leveled to 75, have fought every NM and HNM there is, have every piece of gear, have done every Rank Mission, every quest, have every Avatar, gotten every AF and RSE, played every race, done every single thing there is to do in this vast game, guess what? There is something you haven’t done yet. Something you would be a “n00b” to. Something you can learn. Wouldn’t it be nice if instead of being criticized, laughed at, dismissed or berated for that, someone with that knowledge took the time to help you.
So I personally am eliminating this term from my in-game vocabulary. I am going to try to help people where I can instead of simply applying a label to them and laughing at them. If it’s a situation I can’t help, I’ll just move on. But I’m too much of a “n00b” in too many ways in this game to be applying the term to someone else. Instead, maybe I can teach them something that can help them later on. And maybe they can teach me something too.
Peace and take care,
Andi
Edited, Thu Apr 14 01:34:11 2005 by widenorg